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Man Jailed For Stalking And Abusing Ex-Partner In Crawley

A man who worked as a cleaner has been jailed for abusing and controlling his partner, before subjecting her to a campaign of stalking after the end of their relationship.

Max Kernot, 26, of no fixed address, was in a relationship with his victim – a woman in her 20s for just three months.

In that time he isolated her from her friends and family and took control over significant parts of her life, including sleeping with her car keys under his pillow to prevent her escaping.

He also assaulted her on multiple occasions, strangling her with a seatbelt and pulling out her hair.

Kernot persistently harassed his victim after the end of the relationship. He would turn up unannounced wherever she was, or go to her friends’ houses to try to find her.

Over a period of 35 days he phoned her 272 times from a withheld number, he also used a phone at a local shop to contact her.

On 25 March, Kernot was arrested at his ex-partner’s house after smashing every ground floor window and damaging three cars.

Kernot smashed all the ground floor windows of his victim's house

He was bailed with strict conditions and arrested again on April 2 after he was seen driving past her house.

He was held in police custody after being charged with two counts each of assault, actual bodily harm (ABH) and intentional strangulation, and one count each of criminal damage, engaging in controlling and coercive behaviour, common assault and stalking.

At Lewes Crown Court on May 25, Kernot pleaded not guilty to all counts, but later admitted a number of lesser offences after further evidence was secured.

He pleaded guilty to two counts of common assault, engaging in controlling and coercive behaviour, ABH, intentional strangulation, criminal damage, stalking with harassment and a public order offence.

At Lewes Crown Court on Thursday, July 27, Kernot was jailed for 30 months and given a seven year restraining order against his victim and members of her family.

Kernot smashed his victim's car windows

In a victim impact statement read out in court, Kernot’s victim said his behaviour had caused her to lose her confidence, self-esteem and ability to trust others:

“Max has shown a pattern of repeated and persistent behaviour that has caused me a great deal of fear, alarm, and distress,” she said.

“I never envisaged that I would to need get the police involved simply because I was brave enough to leave a coercive and controlling relationship. However, I have found myself in fear, time and time again, that Max would continue to suffocate me with his behaviour and I would never be able to breathe and be myself again.

“I cannot ignore the devastating effect that Max’s abuse during our relationship and the aftermath of stalking has caused to my life and my family’s life.  No one should have to live in fear the way that I have.”

Detective Constable James Butcher said:

“No-one should feel they have to suffer in silence in an abusive or controlling relationship.

“In just three months Max Kernot weaved his way into his victim’s life, isolated her from her family and restricted her freedom. When she had the courage to end their relationship, he continued to make her life a misery.

“I would like to thank her for reporting her concerns to the police. It has allowed us to put a dangerous individual behind bars and hopefully given her the opportunity to begin rebuilding her life.

“If you are in an abusive or controlling relationship, please report it to police or a partner agency. There is discreet, confidential support available and we will do everything in our power to protect you and bring you justice.

“For more information, visit: Advice about domestic abuse | Sussex Police

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