Always positive and upbeat, Val Pretlove was 78 years old when she took her own life - and her son wants to tell you about it...
James Pretlove is bringing a one man show about his mother’s suicide to Brighton Fringe:
"It's a piece full of laughter, love and lightness; depth, passion and deconstructing slices of Battenberg cake. It tells of my transformation of grief through gratitude."
Anguish followed for James but the chinks in its armour began to fill with his thank yous, and once they started, they didn’t stop.
Having trouble publishing the memoir he went on to write, he saw a psychic who told him kindly to stop hiding behind his computer screen and to find ways to engage with the public in person. Terrified, Pretlove did public readings and then undertook an intensive residential storytelling course which enabled him to develop both the story and his ability to step in front of a crowd.
He has since performed his show all over the UK, from St Stephen Walbrook in the City of London— birthplace of the Samaritans—via the Oxford Storytelling Festival to Findhorn’s Universal Hall.
The piece has, he says, deeply impacted him:
"It seems to have a life of its own and through doing this work I've found that I can look death in the face - I often find myself having those conversations-less-ordinary in our culture: ones about death in general and suicide in particular."
Pretlove loves engaging with people on these taboo subjects and uses his Seventy-Eight Thank Yous shows as one way to do this.
Each performance is followed by half an hour or so of space for discussion and questions.
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“Absolutely superb performance—intimate, uplifting, funny and sad. A rollercoaster ride of a single human experience with universal themes.” Dorota, London
“Excellent. I cried and laughed continuously through out the show. James is like a confident boat captain. He will take you with him on a journey of gratitude with his strong presence and then fill up the cup of your heart with tenderness.” Isabella, Findhorn
James Pretlove is a performer, writer and teacher of gender-role-free Scottish country dancing. He first came to prominence in the 1990s co-creating and editing the cult satirical fashion magazine BLOW.
The Brighton Fringe performances take place at St Luke’s Church, BN2 9ZB at 3.30pm on Sundays May 7, 14, 21 and 28 and June 4; and at 7.30pm on Tuesday May 9th and Mondays May 15, 22 and 29. Tickets £12/6 concs available via www.brightonfringe.com
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